Having Trouble With Forgiveness? What Does the Bible Say?

These verses speak for themselves and need no commentary from me.

Ephesians 4:31-32 ESV 

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Proverbs 15:1 ESV

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Matthew 6:14-15 ESV 

For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

Proverbs 20:22 ESV

Do not say, “I will repay evil”; wait for the Lord, and he will deliver you.

Ephesians 4:31 ESV 

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

Proverbs 10:12 ESV

Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses

James 1:19-20 ESV

Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.

Hebrews 12:15 ESV 

See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled;

James 1:26 ESV

If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.

Romans 12:2 ESV

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

The Wonder of a Loving Relationship

Soon my wife and I will celebrate our 45th Wedding Anniversary. What a wonder filled life we have had.

For most of those years we were privileged to serve side by side in Christian ministry. Our love for each other defies description. Many others have had this same experience.

Love, indeed, is a wonderful thing. The love of a parent for a child, a child for a parent, and so it goes. Yet, none of these can compare with the love that God has for His creation.

God sent His son, Jesus, as an expression of that love. The Bible says all humankind has sinned and is in need of forgiveness. Because of the love Jesus expressed on the Cross, forgiveness is ours for the asking.  "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness" (1st John 1:9)

We need not go it alone in this life. As a member of God's family, He draws alongside of us and walks with us each step of the way. This is truly a 'wonder filled' love.

You can experience this love today!

There's the wonder of sunset at evening,
The wonder as sunrise I see;
But the wonder of wonders that thrills my soul
Is the wonder that God loves me.

Chorus
O, the wonder of it all! The wonder of it all!
Just to think that God loves me.
O, the wonder of it all! The wonder of it all!
Just to think that God loves me.
(George Beverly Shea)

Our New Name

"The Conservative Christian" has a new name. It is "By His Stripes Journal". We have changed the name because we felt the use of the word "Conservative" in our name might carry with it a political overtone. Since we do not deal with worldly politics, it was felt that a name change was in order. It has been quite the task finding a name that both reflects our content and one that is not already in use, but alas, 'By His Stripes'.

When the Rain Comes

The night has passed and the sun rises above the horizon. It has been a difficult night as sleep has eluded you. There are many things on your mind, not the least which are the difficulties you have been facing. Your spirit is troubled and you are not certain just what to do about it all. The anxiousness you feel is only making your level of distress rise and you are not certain how things will play out. You have talked with friends and relatives but that has not brought any relief and you are not certain where else you can turn. Will it ever come to an end or will you ever be able to see things through to a satisfactory end?  What can you possibly do to make it better, make it all go away? Here are five things that might help.

First, know that what you are going through is common to the human experience! Everyone has trouble that, often, seems insurmountable. If there is a difference between them, it is in how they approach dealing with difficulty. You are not alone.

Second, there is a reason that you are facing these difficulties and it is important that you gain an understanding of why you are where you are. It may be something you have done that has brought trouble your way.  If so, take responsibility for your actions. Perhaps it is something others have done and, through no fault of your own, it has complicated your life. Knowing the source of trouble will help you devise a plan that will help you solve the problem.

Third, know there is a way out! There are few problems faced by humankind that are not without a solution. Once you understand that everyone faces difficulty and that there is a way out of that difficulty, you can begin to put together a plan that will solve whatever the problem is. Know that it is OK to ask others for help. You may not have control over how they will respond, but it never hurts to go to those you love and trust for advice and counsel. You may not always like the advice you get... but always, always consider it. Your friends and loved ones just might know what they are talking about. They can be more objective about your issues.

Fourth, know that there is a loving God to whom you can go. This may seem to be to simplistic, but it is, nevertheless, true. If your troubles stem from some ill advised action you have taken, ask Him to forgive you and resolve never to do it again. Ask Him for guidance. Ask Him to give you a solution. God intervenes in our lives when He judges that we are sincere. If your problem is because of what others have done, then forgive them and move on. God expects us to be forgiving if we are to expect His help.


Fifth, once you have accomplished these things, go to work solving the problem. Don't just sit around hoping it all will just go away. Most often, it will not. We are expected to take charge of our lives! That means rolling up our sleeves and get with the process of problem solving. All through life this will be expected of you.


"Got any rivers you think are uncrossable
Got any mountains you can't tunnel through
God specializes in things thought impossible
He does the things others cannot do." 


Oscar Eliason




Psalm 27:1
The LORD is my light and my salvation—
whom shall I fear?
The LORD is the stronghold of my life—
of whom shall I be afraid? (NIV)


Isaiah 41:10
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. (NIV)

Eggs, Cereal, Toast and Bacon

What a great morning! Rose at 5AM and headed for the kitchen determined to give my wife a treat this morning. With Breakfast in Bed in mind, I opened the refrigerator, pulled out the eggs, bacon, and potatoes. Scrambled, diced and fried for the next half hour taking in the aroma all along the way. I put on a pot of coffee and popped the bread in the toaster, all the time anticipating her surprise when it is all served up. Even though my vegan friends would have probably preferred hearing of me serving up a Peanut Butter Granola Breakfast, somehow this seemed to be the right way to go. You should have seen the smile on my wife's face as I proudly strolled into the bedroom, breakfast fare in hand! Boy, was it good and it made for a wonderful start to the day.

For years I never ate breakfast. I always liked to get that last few minutes of sleep in before rising, showering and heading out the door to work! Lunch and Dinner always seemed more than adequate most days.

Nutritionists, however, tell us that if we are to properly maintain our health we should recognise that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. It sets the stage for kicking in the metabolism, helps us concentrate better at work and school and is, generally, a must if we are to develop into strong, healthy human beings. It also helps us develop a staying power for all that will be required of us throughout the day.

Can There Be a Spiritual Application Here?

As I think of this, it makes me wonder if the same is not true for the healthy development of our spiritual life! Can there be a 'spiritual' breakfast served up that will have a similar effect on our spiritual health?

During my formative years I remember my mother rising very early in the morning, always before the sun would rise. She would have a quiet time for herself and meditate. After a short time she would pull out her Bible and read several passages of scripture before falling to her knees for a time of prayer before God. Today I was thinking to myself, this was her recipe for a 'spiritual breakfast'. A quiet time for oneself, Bible study, and then a season of prayer. It set the stage for her 'spiritual metabolism' to kick in. She always maintained that it helped her keep her focus, and asserted that it gave her the strength to be consistent and 'energy' filled throughout the day.

I  think Mom became spiritually equipped during this morning 'breakfast' of hers. She was better equipped to face the day and the challenges the day would bring. God bless her for the example she set. 

How do you start each day? O, you say you have been a Christian for many years and you have already discovered this? Wonderful.....but are you doing it....every day? If you have fallen a bit by the wayside and your spiritual strength is not what it ought to be, try this recipe out! You just might be surprised at how well your day goes.

Blessings!

Meet My New Minister!

Meet My new minister! He is one of the most humble and selfless people I know. He refuses to drive a fancy car or live in an upscale townhouse. He never, never overeats or wastes his food. Expensive clothing he always shys away from. I don't think he ever owned a pair of alligator shoes... that would be to pretentious for him.


Occasionally, he asks for an offering but never asks for very much. He does not travel in the social circles most minister's frequent. He does not waste his resources on fancy restaurants. A vacation is something he has only heard of. He's much to preoccupied for that.

Like some other minister's I know, he is ignored by many who see and hear him, but choose to pass on by without taking him very seriously.

His greatest contribution is that he tests people to see what they are really made of. He challenges them to be real servants of the Almighty. He demands nothing, but chooses to sit quietly by and watches to see if my fellow Christians will adopt a servant hood lifestyle.

Yes, he is my new minister! Much different from the others I have had. He challenges me to be my very best as I serve Christ and he does it without uttering a word. He is my minister because he reminds me of my responsibility for service. Without words he inspires me to immerse myself in God's word and discover how I should live. He is my minister because he is who he is.

Also, he is my minister because, I believe,  he has been sent by God to make me a better servant of the Most High! The mere sight of him moves me to action! O, that I might not miss this opportunity!

Go Back to the Old Wells!

When I look at this illustration I think of my mother and the countless thousands who have served humankind over the years with a caring heart. They did not need innovative, creative programming. They did not need the approval of society. They did not need huge sums of money, a late model car, expansive (and expensive) organizational hierarchy, fancy buildings or planning and development commissions. Their work did not require a PhD., an MSW or a Bachelors degree and if they had one, they never called attention to it. Nowhere to be found was a computer, iPad, or cell phone! Few, if any, had a secretary or paid staff to help them. Modern day Social Workers were yet to arrive on the scene.

Anna Mae (Hunt) Laws 1926



They had everything they needed in a caring heart and a winsome spirit. They possessed an undying love for those who were suffering and needed a friend. They cared for the soul!

 



Sometimes, I think we need to go back to the 'Old Wells'! Return to the old way of thinking and living. Perhaps we should require less for ourselves and make certain WE are connecting with those who really need us. I believe we should, at the very least, consider this. Consider what we can do to achieve what the old timers accomplished. Perhaps simpler is better!

It is true that we live in a different world, today. However, the emotional and spiritual needs of the masses have not changed! Neither has our ability to reach them... if we go back to the 'Old Wells' and draw from it the personal and corporate inspiration, and motivation, that will make a difference!

Perhaps we should be training the troops to maintain the kind of simplicity this chorus exhibits:

"You bring the one next to you,
and I'll bring the one next to me.
In no time at all, we'll win them all.
Win them, win them, one by one!"



A Gift From God!

"Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth." 3 John 2.

Never take your health for granted, whether you are young or older. It was just five years ago our life changed in just a moment of time. It continued to change as my wife's health became worse. Susan is a victim of several strokes. She went through so much. Few people, at the time, understood what was happening or what was to come, including me.Don't take for granted the simple things like bathing, dressing, understanding, talking, moving about and so many other seemingly simple tasks. All can be lost or significantly impaired in a moments time.


Take care of your health....it is a gift from God! He cares about your health and desires for you to guard it carefully!

Can God Really Be Trusted?

On the way home from church I saw a church message board that said, "Got Problems? Trust Jesus!" I thought to myself, "if life could be so simple!" How many of us have had people say to us, when sharing the challenges of life, "you just have to trust God!".

In church we sings hymns like, 'Trusting as the moments fly', or 'Trust and Obey' and I often wonder if we really understand what those words mean. Is it possible for us to just turn over the cares of life to God and forget about them? I would suggest, No!

Now, before you get all upset about my theology, hear me out. In order for us to have the privelege of turning our cares over to the Almighty, and then expecting Him to handle them, I would suggest that there is something more required of us. I maintain that we cannot abandon our cares without some prerequisite behavior. This is my point, if we are to trust God to handle our affairs, we must also be acting responsibly and living righteously!

The Bible says, "O LORD of hosts, blessed is the man that trusteth in thee. "For the Lord God is a sun and shield: the Lord will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withold from them who walk uprightly."(Psalm 84:9-12) This Psalm helps us understand that we can trust God for all good things if we are walking uprightly! So now, the question becomes, 'what does it mean to walk uprightly'?

'Nancy and Rob' lived in the Midwest. They lived on a very meager income and often had trouble paying all of their financial obligations each month. They commented to me one day that they were having difficulty and, soon, they expected to have their utilities shut off. I asked them what they had planned to do about it and they responded, convincingly, that they were trusting God to provide. I thought how wonderful it was they had such trust.

Some time later I learned that this couple had a habit of going to a nearby casino every week. While there, they would spend about $50.00 and then go home when that was lost. That came to $200.00 a month being thrown away for what they called 'entertainment'! When there utilities were finally shut off, they came to me for help. Well, you can imagine what my response was.

If we are to trust God to provide for us, we must, in my opinion, be acting responsibly. I do not believe the argument can be made that this couples behavior was responsible. We are, after all, the stewards of all that God gives us and He expects us to use what we have wisely.

Also, I have heard many people, who were not Christians, expect God to meet their needs without realizing that the promises of God are for His people. God will never withhold any good thing from those who belong to Him and are living in accordance with His word. The Psalmist said, "no good thing will he withhold from them walk uprightly".

Friends, today God wants you to know that whatever the challenges of life may be for you, you CAN trust Him....if you are living responsibly and righteously! Are you using your resources in such as way as to please God? Are your sins forgiven? Do you have the assurance in your heart that you belong to the family of God? If so, you can 'cast all your care upon Him, for He cares for you (1st Peter 5:7)

A Model for Sharing Your Faith

 Acts17:1-4



1 "When Paul and his companions had passed through Amphipolis and Apollonia, they came to Thessalonica, where there was a Jewish synagogue. 2 As was his custom, Paul went into the synagogue, and on three Sabbath days he reasoned with them from the Scriptures, 3 explaining and proving that the Messiah had to suffer and rise from the dead. “This Jesus I am proclaiming to you is the Messiah,” he said. 4 Some of the Jews were persuaded and joined Paul and Silas, as did a large number of God-fearing Greeks and quite a few prominent women."  (NIV)

In Acts Chapter 17 verses 1-4 we discover a model for sharing our faith. Paul is at the city of Thessalonica. When he arrived he went straightaway to a synagouge to teach. This was always his custom upon entering a new city. At the synagouge we discover that Pauls strategy for sharing the Gospel had four elements. First he sat with all those present and 'reasoned' with them. In other words, he engaged in freindly conversation. Second, during these discussions, he explained his view of the Messianic scriptures. Third, he gave evidence supporting his contention that Jesus was the Messiah and finally, he declared that Jesus was, in fact, the Messiah.

I think that Pauls approach to those in the Temple was one given him by God. The scripture tells us that he was so effective that some in the synagouge, including many devout Greeks and many women were persuaded of the truth he presented them.

I believe that if we are to sway others, we must have a well reasoned discussion concerning the things of God. Contentious debate rarely convinces anyone of anything. If fact, it may further harden the positions others have always taken. We must learn, in our outreach efforts, to approach people in a kindly and temperate way always being the voice of reason.

We must also recognise that our authority is the scripture, not our personal opinion or viewpoint. Those may be helpful, but only God's word can be used to effectively make our case for the Gospel message.

We must present clearly who Jesus is, why He came into this world, why it was necessary for Him to die on the Cross and what He accomplished by defeating death on the cross. He is the Messiah and we must not only present arguments in support of this contention but we must declare to all with whom we speak that Jesus IS the Son of God, Savior of the world.

One other point that might be useful. This narrative indicates that Paul continued to teach in the synagouge for a period of three weeks. in other words, he was persistent. He was a man on a mission who had a very clear objective. That objective was to save as many as he could.

How effective are your efforts to save the lost. Let me encourage you to immerse yourself in the methodologies found in scripture. Todays lesson shows us one. There are many others.

May God Bless you!

Discouraged in Ministry?

All to often we expect immediate or even intermediate results from our ministry. Often, we do not see much results from our efforts. Don't give up on what God has called you to do! If God has called you to do it, He will equip you. He will direct you. He will give the victory!

I am no stranger to discouragement. I understand the feelings one gets when their ministry efforts, whatever they may be, seem to fall on deaf ears. It can be very discouraging. However, we are called to persevere in what God has called us to do. Your ministry may be in the pulpit. It may be in your neighborhood. Perhaps it is among friends and acquaintances. Whatever God has called you to do, don't give up! When we are obedient and faithful, He always brings the victory!

Sometimes it seems that even fellow Christians fail to support you. I remember when I started this blog, there were some that suggested that, since I was no longer in the full time ministry, it was inappropriate to start an 'unofficial' ministry effort. Others have suggested that my efforts are to 'modest' to make a real difference. I was tempted to just throw my hands up in disgust, sit back, and enjoy retirement. Well, discouragement notwithstanding, I made a conscious decision to forge ahead and write as God inspires me to write and place the rest in God's hands. After one year there have been over 2200 individuals in 15 countries who have read the articles I have posted. PTL! Never give up! Whatever God has called you to do, rely on Him and He will bring the victory!

If you are a pulpiteer, preach harder than ever. If you are a counselor, continue reaching out and provide Godly counsel. If you are a Sunday School teacher, study, study, study, and then deliver your lesson with confidence. Whatever your ministry, never, never, never, give up!

Guard Your Faith!

How wonderful it is to have a faith whose truth is born out in Scripture. The Bible is the only source of authority we have and it is important that we guard, carefully, the truth that is God's Word! Unfortunately, we live in a world that would have us change what we believe to suit the popular winds that blow all around us.

While it is true that we do not have a full understanding of all that is contained in Scripture, it is also true that there is much that we do understand and know to be true. That truth must be must be proclaimed unfailingly! It is the truth by which we live! It is the truth that empowers us! It is the truth that saves all who would embrace it! Truth does not change simply because there are those who may find it uncomfortable!

We must always resist the temptation to alter the truth with a view toward making it more acceptable. We Evangelicals believe that there is only one way to experience forgiveness of sin, and that is through Jesus the Christ. Only one way to heaven! If we are to be accused of being narrowminded, then so be it! We plead guilty!

There are other truths that we proclaim. Marriage is established between one man and one woman! Sexual perversions are sin! Adultery, Coveteousness, Stealing, Murder, and more are procliamed in Scripture as being contrary to God's will! These and other truths are set out in the words of the Bible which we believe to be the divinely inspired Word of God Himself!

The greatest truth proclaimed in its pages, is that God sent His Son to provide an atonement for the whole world so that we can be delivered from those behaviors we know to be damning. We must never waiver from proclaiming this message! We must always, however, share it with a spirit of love toward those who need to hear it!

No, the world has no authority to change the truth of Scripture and we must never, never, never, give in to the 'winds that would destroy that truth'!

Gary Laws

Salvation Army Trivia

While with The Salvation Army, we were stationed in Carthage, Missouri from 1996-2000. Carthage is the headquarters for Precious Moments. While we were there, Sam Butcher hosted our Christmas kickoff at the Precious Moments Cafeteria and announced that he would be producing the Precious Moments Salvation Army figurine. He then asked my wife, Susan, if she would photo model the uniform, Christmas Kettle and all. We set up on the front lawn of the Corps and Sam sent his photographer and Sue modeled for the figurine. Many may not know that the original prototype of the figurine features the Salvation Army Bell Ringer in an Envoy's uniform. We were Envoys at the time. NHQ had him change it to an officers uniform. Also, if you look on the lapel you will see a little round bump. That was originally the depiction of my wife's Home League button. NHQ said 'no pins' on the uniform so the gold was 'blued over'.

Incidently, Mrs. Commissioner Harold Hinson and Lt. Colonel Arlis Spicer have the only photographs of the original 'Envoy' figurine. I presented it to them, framed, at an Officers Councils prior to the release of the figurine to the market. Just a little Salvation Army trivia.

Holy Living Emphasized at The Salvation Army Meeting in Syracuse

Meaningful service this morning at The Salvation Army Syracuse Citadel, New York. Special guest was Commissioner Israel Gaither who preached on the importance of holiness being strived for by every Christian.. Commissioner Gaither is the retired Salvation Army Chief of Staff, second in command of the world wide Salvation Army. It was a special pleasure to have my daughter Cheryl (pictured) with me during the morning worship service. Cheryl worships at The Salvation Army Onondaga Tabernacle Corps in Liverpool, New York.

The meeting was led by Major George Polarek with Majors John and Anita Stewart participating. The members of the Onondaga Tabernacle Coprs brought the Call to Worship.

The Commissioner spoke eloquently about the need for all Christians to be seeking the holiness experience as described in Scripture. Special emphasis was given to the purity of the mind and heart. The meetings were also supported by Major and Mrs. Donald Hostetler, Divisional Leaders.

It was also a real pleasure to meet up with my daughter, Cheryl (pictured below) and two of my grandchlildern for worship.

Special music was provided by The Citadel Choir and Major Cheydlur.

Road Well Travelled (Repost)

Ever been on a 66 year 'road trip'? I have and it has only recently come to an end. It was a 'round trip'. Back to the environs of my youth. Now, how best to use the rest of time is the challenge. Problem is....the balance of time cannot be quantified, only wished for. I have chased many rainbows on this trip. Had a few flat tires. Run out of gas occasionally. Experienced the joy of success and reached a few dead ends. I have ascended many mountains only to discover, when reaching the summit, the only way forward was downward, advancing toward the depths of the unwelcome valley ahead.

During my journey I have found respite along the way. Some days in palaces, other days in humble haciendas...even humiliating haunts, if not horrific. Along the way, like many travelers, I gathered some souvenirs, all of which have been cast off, most forgotten. Nothing is forever, you see. I have learned a little and, at times, used what I have learned productively, but not always.

... Ah, yes! The environs of my youth once again, but youth has escaped me as have many other faculties. Those once known are no longer present in this place. Now, my lot is to struggle with the things I once took for granted. My health, my understanding, my secure notions. I am tired from my journey. I seek a measure of rest and contentment. No more mountains to climb or valleys to descend into. No more dead ends. No more rainbows, palaces or performances. No time for such foolishness. Now I can rest! Reflect. Rejoice. Recall. Respond. Renew. I am now in a familiar place. I am also in a new place. The place that I have been given... for today. It has been an interesting road trip, this road well travelled. Ever changing scenery. It, I hope, has been a productive one.

As I look back over the many miles travelled, I realize that I have not been alone through any of it. Most important to me have been my travelling companions. They are the ones that I have trusted and trust today. My wife, my children, my friends. Did I mention that Jesus was there along the way? Oh, yes, a powerful presence in all this. He is here today!

How best to use the balance of unquantifiable time? I think I shall simply live in the moment and leave the rest to the One I trust most. I think I will limit my planning to today and enjoy the present. Making sure I am ready for that one last road trip. That's right, one more! The journey which will lead me into the presence of the One I so humbly have attempted to serve.

When that day comes I think I shall have my children go to my face book page, my internet blog and my Twitter account and make one last post on my behalf. It will say simply, "My Dad has finished his last Road Trip and arrived at his intended destination."

Gary Laws

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Leadership?

True leaders are those who inspire their subordinates to greatness by their example. It is true that many seek to bring subordinates into compliance with their wishes by compelling certain behavior. They do this by virtue of their authority. This, however, is not leadership...it is autocratic rule and rarely is met with large success. Those who lead by example not only achieve their objectives, but they gain the respect of those they seek to influence!

The Jericho Principle-Obedience then Victory (six minute devotional)

Visiting the Birthplace of Methodism and The Salvation Army

Rescue the Perishing

Are you a denominational leader with charges who are having a rough time of it? Find a way, beyond words, to come to the rescue! You may save a ministry that, in future years, will touch the lives of hundreds if not thousands. Think about what you can do. When I sing the words, "Rescue the Perishing", I think not only of the laity, but those in full time service as well. God will bless you beyond measure.

Meekness and Humility

The Jericho Principle (Excerpted)

AN EXCERPT FROM "THE JERICHO PRINCIPLE" (Section One)

As we prepare ourselves for being used by God, we must learn to be obedient to God and we must persevere in whatever mission God gives us. In the biblical account of Joshua, concerning the fall of Jericho, there is something to be learned about what I have come to refer to as "The Jericho Principle‟®. We learn that there was a plan. The plan was given by God. It was to be followed to the letter and it was to be carried out by the foot soldiers. With the plans successful completion, God would provide victory. When I first arrived at a new church appointment, I was given the responsibility of raising funds for a new church building. The cost would be one million dollars.

At first I was terrified. I had never been called upon to conduct a capital campaign and I had no idea how to go about it. Leadership reassured me, however, they had decades of experience doing this in many other cities and, over the years, they had developed a plan that, if followed, would assure success. They spent much time explaining the plan to me and then said it would be my responsibility to follow it through to a successful conclusion. With much trepidation, I began. First I assembled a committee of influential leaders who would make up a Capital Campaign Committee. Second, I retained fund raising counsel to give advice. And then, following their advice, I went about implementing the steps of the plan. The result was that, after just eleven months, our goal was met. In fact we exceeded it by four percent! I learned the importance of fol-lowing my leaders instruction and implementing the plan they had given me to the letter. God’s Plan for General Joshua In Joshua 6:1-20 we read the account of Joshua being given a plan to conquer Jericho. This plan was given to him by God.

The plan was a very specific one. Joshua would instruct his army to march once around the city on each of six days. On the seventh day they would march around the city seven times with the priests blowing rams horns. When his soldiers heard a long blast on the horns they would give out a great shout. The walls of Jericho would fall and God would deliver the city to them.

It is important to note that this plan was not one devised by Joshua. He certainly was a military leader who could have developed a strategy, had God chosen to leave him to his own resources and experience. However, God chose to provide the plan and required that His plan be followed. It was equally important for Joshua to give these instructions to his army who would carry them out. It has not escaped me that it was the foot soldiers who carried out the plan. Here we should realize that it would be God who provided the victory. The walls did not fall as a result of the marching or the great shout. They fell because God's instructions were carried out faithfully. Then, God willed the walls to fall.

Victorious Service Realized

 There are countless numbers of hymns written on the subject of victory. They are inspiring musical offerings which lift us up and encourage us in our service to God. One chorus, in particular, was one that my mother taught me when I was a small child. I remember that she would sing it over and over again. It was: "Ever is the war cry, victory, victory. Ever is the war cry, victory. Waft it on your banners; get it on your knees. Victory, Victory, Victory!" (William Howard Doane)

More than anything else, we desire victory in our Christian walk and we need victory in our Christian service. Joshua gained the victory because he was obedient to God. When God‟s people are victorious in their Christian service to the Almighty, people stand up and take notice. All around us are people whose lives are uneventful, or so it would seem to them. They are crying out for some meaning in their life. They experience the void that we all know exists in the sinners heart and those outside the faith are attracted to Christians, and fellowships, which are actively doing God's work and experiencing God‟s blessing.

The Plan Was Given By God

 When we discuss the nature of God‟s plan for our life we should understand that there is the general plan that God has given to all Christians through the Great Commission and there is the specific plan that He has for you. The general plan will bring new converts into the faith. The specific plan will incorporate a form of service that God will uniquely equip you for. In each case, victory will come through obedience.

The Great Commission

 The Great Commission is found in Mark 16:15. It commands us to go into the entire world and preach the gospel. This is quite a challenge! We should realize that it is in „our world‟, the immediate world around us, that our mission begins. It begins with our family and friends and then extends into our neighborhood and com-munity. The Great Commission is a plan for Christian outreach. It is a plan to bring into the fellowship of believers, those who are outside of the faith. You can be used of God to bring new Chris-tians into the fellowship if you are obedient. You will grow spiritually as this is realized in your life. Your church will benefit also as many of these new Christians will be drawn to your house of worship. Your efforts to preach the Gospel will help to grow your church community.

This is continued in my book, "That God May Use Me"

Pulpit Supply

Gary Laws is available Sundays as a Pulpit Supply at your church. Laws' preaching series on 'The Jericho Principle" has been well recieved. The series focuses on the responsibilty of the laity to accept responsibilty for the outreach of the Church. For more information...315 560-4913. New York state only.

The Absolute Truth!

Truth is always absolute! It does not change with the winds of societal notions nor does it change when humankind is uncomfortable with it. The Christian's challenge is to discover it! Such discovery can only be realized in the words of Scripture, that is...the Holy Bible. Now, I realize that the Bible is not always easily understood, however, it's truth will reveal itself when sincerely sought out.

Going Beyond Prayer

Her voice cracking, she looked up and said, "I never thought I would be like this!" Putting her arms around me as best she could, she gave a small squeeze, you could hear her sigh, then she composed herself. You could feel the hopelessness in her voice.

Do you know someone who is disabled and having a rough time dealing with it? Perhaps a friend, relative or someone at church. Do pray for them and then do something for them. Brighten their day...God will brighten yours!

What Will You Be Doing?

Less than 60 days to Pastor Appreciation Month. What is your congregation planning. What are YOU planning? Not to early to start!

What Do You Worship?

Some people worship the earth, others the intellect, still others the physical form. They consider themselves to be enlightened. I would would rather worship the One who created each of the forgoing. To do so brings an enlightenment the others cannot know or experience, save through the conversion of the soul. GDL

Are We Ready for the Rescue? Thoughts for the Church's First Responders

"Rescue the perishing, care for the dying,
Snatch them in pity from sin and the grave;
Weep o’er the erring one, lift up the fallen,
Tell them of Jesus, the mighty to save.

Rescue the perishing, care for the dying,
Jesus is merciful, Jesus will save.
 (Fanny Crosby)

Do we really weep o're the erring one or do we look upon them critically? How about the fallen? Do we lift them up or leave them to die on the battlefield? One day God will judge our hearts. Such judgement will be based on our behavior, not the words of the songs we sing!

What Does It Mean to Trust God?

On the way home from church I saw a church message board that said, "Got Problems? Trust Jesus!" I thought to myself, "if life could be so simple!" How many of us have had people say to us, when sharing the challenges of life, "you just have to trust God!".

In church we sings hymns like, 'Trusting as the moments fly', or 'Trust and Obey' and I often wonder if we really understand what those words mean. Is it possible for us to just turn over the cares of life to God and forget about them? I would suggest, No!

Now, before you get all upset about my theology, hear me out. In order for us to have the privelege of turning our cares over to the Almighty, and then expecting Him to handle them, I would suggest that there is something more required of us. I maintain that we cannot abandon our cares without some prerequisite behavior. This is my point, if we are to trust God to handle our affairs, we must also be acting responsibly and living righteously!

The Bible says, "O LORD of hosts, blessed is the man that trusteth in thee.  "For the Lord God is a sun and shield: the Lord will give grace and glory : no good thing will he withold from them who walk uprightly."(Psalm 84:9-12) This Psalm helps us understand that we can trust God for all good things... if we are walking uprightly! So now, the question becomes, 'what does it mean to walk uprightly'?

'Nancy and Rob' lived in the Midwest. They lived on a very meager income and often had trouble paying all of their financial obligations each month. They commented to me one day that they were having difficulty and, soon, they expected to have their utilities shut off. I asked them what they had planned to do about it and they responded, convincingly, that they were trusting God to provide. I thought how wonderful it was they had such trust.

Some time later I learned that this couple had a habit of going to a nearby casino every week. While there, they would spend about $50.00 and then go home when that was lost. That came to $200.00 a month being thrown away for what they called, 'entertainment'! When there utilities were finally shut off, they came to me for help. Well, you can imagine what my response was.

If we are to trust God to provide for us, we must, in my opinion, be acting responsibly. I do not believe the argument can be made that this couples behavior was responsible. We are, after all, the stewards of all that God gives us and He expects us to use what we have wisely.

Also, I have heard many people, who were not Christians, expect God to meet their needs without realizing that the promises of God are for His people. God will never withhold any good thing from those who belong to Him and are living in accordance with His word. The Psalmist said, "no good thing will he withhold from them walk uprightly".

Friends, today God wants you to know that whatever the challenges of life may be for you, you CAN trust Him....if you are living responsibly and righteously! Are you using your resources in such as way as to please God? Are your sins forgiven? Do you have the assurance in your heart that you belong to the family of God? If so, you can 'cast all your care upon Him, for He cares for you (1st Peter 5:7)

I have found a friend in Jesus, He’s everything to me,
He’s the fairest of ten thousand to my soul;
The Lily of the Valley, in Him alone I see
All I need to cleanse and make me fully whole.
In sorrow He’s my comfort, in trouble He’s my stay;
He tells me every care on Him to roll.
Refrain:
He’s the Lily of the Valley, the Bright and Morning Star,
He’s the fairest of ten thousand to my soul.

Charles Fry

Getting the Most Out of Prayer!

How we human beings love to plan. We plan vacations right down to the smallest of details. We plan business meetings for the purpose of achieving success, especially when those meetings include people who can be of most help to us. We plan our finances so as to maximize our income and wealth. So much planning!

During this mornings devotions, this thought came to me; "Shouldn't I put as much energy into planning my daily, personal prayer sessions as I do other activities in my life? There is much to organize and think out prior to actually entering into our private prayer sessions. Who will I pray for? What will I pray for? What will I ask of God? What about detailing each of those things I want to be grateful for?

When you actually think of it, our prayer sessions with the Almighty may actually be the most important personal business meeting of the day! After all, we will be meeting with the Creator of the universe!We should know ahead of time how we will best use that precious time. Spontaneity in prayer is wonderful. I would not diminish it's importance. However, I believe there is something to be said for planning each of the elements of our prayer time. Surely that time is at least as important  as vacation! GDL

Be Thankful for Your Partners in Ministry

I served many years as a church Pastor. During those years I was privileged to work alongside many lay leaders who selflessly gave of their time and resources to advance the ministry of the church. My denomination is The Salvation Army and so the size of my congregations varied from city to city. Their were some appointments I served that had few leaders and others that had strong leadership. Sometimes, activities like Sunday School, Men's and Women's groups, youth groups and more had to be led by my wife and I while other times we were in appointments where we were blessed with leadership which helped carry the responsibility.

I have always been very grateful to all of those who offered themselves through church service. My wife and I continue to hear from many of them, now many years later. What a blessing they were and continue to be.

Today, I am reminded how important it is to value our helpers in the faith. It occurs to me that there are many ways we can support them. Here are a few.

Pray For Them

Mostly, our partners in ministry need your prayerful support. They are needful of this. Most have accepted responsibility that is critical to the spiritual growth of the church and for some this is an enormous task. Pray for each one by name daily!

Encourage Them

From time to time, leaders may become discouraged in the course of fulfilling their function. There are many reasons for this. Church members may criticise their efforts. They may not always see results from their efforts. Some may suffer from burn out. Still others may be under attack from Satan himself. Whatever feelings they may develop, each needs to know they have the support of their Pastor and Church Staff. As each Pastor knows, leadership can be a lonely endeavor.

Take time to let them know they are appreciated. If they are being unfairly criticised by others, let them know that you are in their corner. You may even choose to have a chat with those doing the criticising. Pray with them. If they are not seeing the results that they expect from their ministry let them know that God works in His own time and way and will always honor their efforts.

Equip Them

Make room in your schedule to provide your leaders with the tools they need to accomplish their ministry task. Nothing can be more frustrating than to have a feeling of being ill equipped. Training is critical to their ministry effectiveness.The more they learn, the more confidence they will have.

Thank God for Them

Get on your knees before a Holy God and thank Him for those He has sent your way. Be sure, they are a gift from God.

God works in wonderful ways His purpose to fulfill.

Dealing with the Illness of Loved Ones and Other Challenges in Life

In 1992, my wife began showing signs of muscle weakness. At first it was mild. She had pains in her arms and legs, often her eyes would cross and her eyelids would shut involuntarily. Over about 6 months, the symptoms became worse and someone had to be home with her around the clock. I worked the day shift and my son the night shift which enabled one of us to be home at all times. Eventually she became totally unable to care for herself. Soon we had a diagnosis of Myastheina Gravis. We were not sure what the future would hold. After about a year, and many, many trips to the doctor and hospital, she went into remission and we were, indeed, a joyful family as she began to regain her abilities.

She did very well for several years, then illness struck again. She would begin to experience many behavioral difficulties which no one could adequately explain. More doctors and multiple hospitalizations. More discouraging diagnosis. Then came the heart attacks, two to be precise, and ultimately 3 full blown strokes and a severe bout with depression over a one year period. By this time my son had joined the military and our ministry had taken us far away from our other four children who, now, were grown and had families of their own. It became necessary to leave our ministry of many years and move closer to three of our children. More doctors and hospitals, most recently a two month stay at which time we almost lost her.

Recently, the overall diagnosis for these newer conditions became Vascular Dementia, resulting from the strokes. Once again, this wonderful lady found herself totally dependent upon others for even the most simple things in life such as dressing, bathing, walking, eating and more. She is not always able to speak as she would like or formulate her words. Often, she will sit on the edge of the bed and weep, thinking that life will never again be normal for her.

One day we went outdoors to sit in the sunshine and, as we looked off in the distance, there was a woman in a wheel chair making her way across the distant parking lot. She was alone, pushing herself backwards with one foot, a few inches at a time. I was a bit worried, in that moment, that Susan would see herself (in that woman) at some time in the future, so I did not say anything for fear of bringing that to mind. We were both silent and then, as the lady made her way behind a building and out of our view, Sue looked up at me and said in words as clear as ever, "We should be thankful for our blessings!"

 "Thankful"?, I thought to myself! My wife, over several years, has been ill beyond anything she deserves, and we should be thankful? We have lost our ministry, our retirement, our freedom and my wife has lost the ability to care for herself and somehow this seemed, to me, like a strange way for her to react. After all, she could very well be in the same situation as this poor lady in the wheel chair,  and in the not to distant future at that.

These thoughts lasted only for a few fleeting seconds. The Lord convicted me immediately.Then, I was reminded of my wife's powerful, albeit simple words. "We should be thankful for our blessings!" In that moment I started counting those blessings, as that great hymn suggests. Naming them, "one by one". We live comfortably, while finances are a challenge we have sufficient. We can communicate with each other, hug each other, share quiet moments throughout the day! We are able to enjoy our children and grandchildren. We can get out and move about many days. I have the physical and emotional strength to serve my wife in these days and most of all, we have a God who loves, enables and cares for us each step of the way. Then I realized that we had not lost our ministry at all. It has simply changed. I have a new, God given ministry to my wife and I hope she realizes that she ministers to me, also, in countless ways.

Some thoughts to remember.....
During these days I have come to realize that illness is not evidence of God 'punishing' us for past 'misdeeds'. Unfortunately, there are some who would have you believe this. God allows illness to visit His people for a reason. That reason may not always be clear, at first, but we can be assured, whatever it is, God knows exactly what is happening and why. He loves you and cares for you and He will work out His perfect will through you, even when illness is present.

Illness always brings with it the need for reliance upon God. During times of illness we feel most vulnerable. Some would say helpless. God wants us to exercise our faith in ways that bring honor and glory to Him. It is during times of affliction that God works His most powerful ways through us. He makes His presence felt by those who need Him the most. It is when we are at our most vulnerable that we 'cast all our care upon Him'. Depending upon Him for strength, endurance, understanding and compassion brings into our life a power that is sufficient to enable us to serve Him most effectively.

God has a grand design for our lives. We may not always understand it. It may not always be a plan that we would choose. But, as we stand in His presence, we come to realize His wisdom, perhaps in ways not understood before. For His people God works all things out for the good.

Finally, He will not leave you or forsake you! God is an ever present help in time of need. He is there for you to talk with, cry with, rejoice with and serve with. He is alongside of you and He will never be absent. That is true throughout life, but never more true than is times of great distress.

This knowledge is what helps each of us deal with our life circumstance. It is the realization that God has brought many blessings our way and He continues to do so. He is an ever loving, ever present God. It is upon Him that we rely. Whatever the future holds, we do not walk alone. It is not necessary for us to deal with these realities by ourselves. God draws up alongside, each step of the way.

Are you facing challenging circumstances in life? Are you dealing with the illness of a loved one? Please know that you need not do it alone! God stands, even now, at your side ready to guide, comfort, strengthen, and enable you to navigate difficult waters. Take some time to seek Him out and, as you do, "count your blessings"!

"The will of God will never take you
Where the grace of God cannot keep you,
Where the arms of God cannot support you,.
Where the riches of God cannot supply your needs,
Where the power of God cannot endow you."

May God Bless you!  Gary D. Laws

A Thought About Success, Failure, and the Future

Over the course of our life we will experience succes and failure. Sometimes great success and significant failure. Don't dwell on your success, it will delude you. Don't dwell on your failures, they will discourage you. However, when one reaches their later years, it will be good to look back and conclude that we have done our best and, then, leave the past where it so rightfully belongs...in the past. Now...... let's greet tomorrow!

The Salvation Army-A Special Ministry or Just One of Many?

The Salvation Army-A Special Ministry or Just One of Many?


I have always believed the people of The Salvation Army to have a special, God ordained ministry. In 123 countries around the world the poor and disenfranchised find themselves on the doorsteps of the Army as they have no where else to turn. Meeting their needs is what the Army does!

However, the work of these 'Soldiers Without Swords' goes much further. Every Sunday they gather in Salvation Army churches to worship and give thanks to a holy God who not only cares for the body, but the soul. They preach to congregations that are made up of all socio-economic classes who share the common goal of feeding the soul of those who are spiritually hungry and need to know that God loves them. The soldiers of this Army recognise that the greatest good is done when mankind experiences a changed heart! Yet, they never impose their faith on anyone...they simply share their faith with those who are willing to listen.

Having said this, the poor and disenfranchised are that special ministry. The hungry who need food; the lonely who need a listening ear; the children who need a role model; the disaster victim who has lost everything; the prisoner who needs hope and on the list goes. It is unending.

What is most noteworthy is that they do this with little attention being given them. They don't get big headlines from the news organizations. They do not have any billion dollar donors. They quietly go about their work knowing that God is watching over them and working through them. Quietly looking for ways to make a difference. And to be sure, they do make a difference! They bring the most meaningful change to the peoples of the world. Never tiring, just doing what they believe God has ordained them to do; in the most public places and the most secretive shadows.

My challenge to the public at large is, do what you can to support them. My challenge to the soldiers of The Salvation Army is...always keep our Lord at the very center of what you do and the essence of who you are. In your relationship with the poor, with the congregant, with your leaders, with your subordinates allow Jesus Christ to reign supreme.

Of course, there are many wonderful ministries throughout the world. For sure the Army is one of them!

I, once, was blessed to have served with them. In my heart, that service continues.

Concern Yourself with How Many are in Christ on Sunday!

 Don't worry about how many are in church on Sunday; concern yourself with how many are in Christ on Sunday! (GDL)

All of us want to see our church grow, don't we. Pursuing this objective, we formulate plans, adopt methodologies, call prayer meetings, preach on the topic vociferously....all with church growth in mind!

However, many church leaders may be overlooking the most powerful and effective tool available to us; helping our current congregants become all that God desires them to be. I believe that the closer Christians get to God, the closer they get to their church growth objective. This is because the deeper our relationship with the living God...the more attuned we become to His 'Great Commision' desire to bring all people into a saving relationship with Himself. We begin to discover what we can be doing to reach the lost. Our role in church growth becomes clear.

Consider, today, how you can move your charges closer to their Lord. By doing so you will see God move in a mighty way and He will bring new people to serve under your leadership. This is because God desires to place His people under the leadership of those who will care for them and take care for their spiritual growth.

Plans and methodologies are fine. They have their place. However, don't worry about growing your congregation numerically; put your effort into growing those you have....spiritually. The numbers will follow!
 (GDL)

The Jericho Principles

As Christians, we have sometning to learn from the Biblical narrative concerning Joshua and the fall of Jericho. In these passages we discover that God had a plan, the plan was to be carried out to the letter and it was to be implemented by the footsoldiers under Joshua's leadership.

God has a plan for the Church. That plan includes evangelism, discipleship and worship. We as God's footsoldiers are expected to be an integral part of the plans success. Under the leadership of those He has sent us, we are expected to be workers in the vineyard. God purposes for us to introduce others to the Christ who has provided for their salvation on the cross. He will enable us to nurture and disciple those who yeild to Him and He will strengthen us as we worship and seek His face.

God help each of us to provide for the growth of His church and to draw closer to Him each day.

We Need an Attitude Change!

Cossack Fire Dance (From "Call of the Cossacks")

Today I Will......

Today I Will......by Gary Laws on Sunday, May 15, 2011 at 9:02am


Today I choose to give some sort of encouragement to everyone I meet. By doing so I will be encouraged! I will smile at everyone I make eye contact with. I will respond positively to everyone who say's hello. I will sit next to someone who needs to feel accepted. I will pat someone on the back who needs approval. I will be kind to all and I will really mean it when I say 'glad to see you'. These things I will do while at Church and throughout the day!

Are You a Struggling with What You Used to Be?

One thought to struggling 'Formers': We think of ourselves as 'Formers' when we allow that to be our only identity. It is when we finally move on to whatever our 'new identiity' is that we no longer think in those terms. It is of no consequence what we 'were';.... only what we are or are becoming! When we become aware of this, we can successfully move on. For example: I view myself as a full time caregiver to my wife. That is what I am today. I am also a Minister of the Gospel, albeit without denominational affiliation. I am no longer concerned with what I used to be or do. That is irrelevant to my life today. I cherish past ministries and I always will, however, today I am a 'new man'!

The Salvation Army-A Special Ministry or Just One of Many?

I have always believed the people of The Salvation Army to have a special, God ordained ministry. In 123 countries around the world the poor and disenfranchised find themselves on the doorsteps of the Army as they have no where else to turn. Meeting their needs is what the Army does!


However, the work of these 'Soldiers Without Swords' goes much further. Every Sunday they gather in Salvation Army churches to worship and give thanks to a holy God who not only cares for the body, but the soul. They preach to congregations that are made up of all socio-economic classes who share the common goal of feeding the soul of those who are spiritually hungry and need to know that God loves them. The soldiers of this Army recognise that the greatest good is done when mankind experiences a changed heart! Yet, they never impose their faith on anyone...they simply share their faith with those who are willing to listen.

Having said this, the poor and disenfranchised are that special ministry. The hungry who need food; the lonely who need a listening ear; the children who need a role model; the disaster victim who has lost everything; the prisoner who needs hope and on the list goes. It is unending.

What is most noteworthy is that they do this with little attention being given them. They don't get big headlines from the news organizations. They do not have any billion dollar donors. They quietly go about their work knowing that God is watching over them and working through them. Quietly looking for ways to make a difference. And to be sure, they do make a difference! They bring the most meaningful change to the peoples of the world. Never tiring, just doing what they believe God has ordained them to do; in the most public places and the most secretive shadows.

My challenge to the public at large is, do what you can to support them. My challenge to the soldiers of The Salvation Army is...always keep our Lord at the very center of what you do and the essence of who you are. In your relationship with the poor, with the congregant, with your leaders, with your subordinates allow Jesus Christ to reign supreme.

Of course, there are many wonderful ministries throughout the world. For sure the Army is one of them!

I, once, was blessed ta have served with them. In my heart, that service continues.

Does God Care About Gas Prices?

Will there ever be any end to the economic decline? Many very smart people are 'weighing in' on this question. Gas prices are going through 'the roof' and restricting the travel of many Americans like never before. Grandparents are unable to visit their children and grandchilldren who live some distance away. Even trips to the supermarket are becoming less frequent and we are learning that we must become 'logistics' savvy as we plan the use of our family vehicle. So much of our life is dependent on gasoline and oil. Food prices are up an average of 15%, clothing is seeing higher prices and there does not seem to be any end in sight.


Our lifestyles and, some say, even our freedom is being restricted.  Americans are experiencing heightened levels of anxiety as it becomes more difficult to make ends meet. Our politicians are promising better days but those days do not seem to be on the horizon!

As if this is not enough to break us, government leaders talk about raising taxes and cutting services while, at the same time, suggesting Americans need to step up and pay their 'fare share'! As if we are not contributing enough! They seem to have lost sight of the fact that we all carry 100% of the burden. The goverment has no money of it's own to contribute....it is our money they continue to confiscate and spend.

All of these factors, and more, are seeming to 'stress out' those who come up short every week.

So....where is God in all of this? Does He really care? Is He active in the affairs of mankind?

When we turn to God's word we do learn that God cares for us. The teaching of scripture is that God will always provide our needs. Some periods of time will always be better than others but, make no mistake, God is present in all of this.

If you are experiencing depression or anxiety due to the stresses of life, remember these words from Matthew:

6:26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?
27 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?
28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin.
29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these.
30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?
31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.   33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Matthew 6:26-34

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